Yes. It's not really about war and peace, but the human condition and how bloody wonderful you guys are during conflict and, for lack of a better word, peaceful times.

He decided it was time to get married. We corresponded for a few years afterwards, but Leo was faithful to his wife. I was pretty devastated when we parted. He was determined to be a good family man, though, and you can't have a mistress on the side.

I haven't ... you're the first person I've really talked about this with in decades.